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JaimePaulFalcon
10-24-2005, 03:50 AM
Its much like Kerouac said “What is the feeling when you’re driving away from people and they recede on the plain till you see their specks disappearing?
…it’s the to huge world vaulting us, and it’s goodbye.
But we lean forward to the next crazy venture beneath the skies…”

“There’s no place like home…” Dorothy Gale

Man I love the road trip movie and the coming home movie really nothing says more about the American dream then theses. They are what we all dream about either we have already left home and have returned to experience life how it is after we left our safe haven or we are running from the only thing we ever knew to escape/find ourselves. And that friend is beautiful in his or her own weird way. These themes are explored soundly in the films Highway and Garden Sate, in one a pair of friends are trying to escape a destiny of pain in the other a man returns to his legacy of pain and they both grab you and force you to realize that the American Dream is ridden with pain its out inherent condition. To live to suffer to flee to return and that is what life truly is as much as we lie to ourselves there’s no escaping the truth. And that is why I’m a victim of falling for these films, that is why I spend hours pouring over their contents trying to find my meaning in them not knowing that my meaning and yours is mine and yours individually we are not what we watch we only dream of what we may accomplish while we view these things.

Now I write this all with my cigarette smoke burning my eyes causing tears to swell not knowing if the tears are coming from just the smoke or the thought of my own American dream having died. Is it because I can never return home? Or is because I like the fortitude to take that rode trip we all crave to truly find onesself? I do not truly know all I know is that life in its self may or may not pass me by and the rest of us as we throw ourselves into the art and dreams of others and who knows if we or me are willing to go on our own and find our own adventures.

Do we want to Large and return to find love? Or do we simply want to be jack from highway and run from our demons and find love that way? Do we truly know? These are questions most of us are too afraid to answer. We are contempt to live our lives and except what we find and that my friends is a shame and the true sad state of our own affairs.

Zens7s
10-24-2005, 12:08 PM
Is it because I can never return home?
Thomas Wolfe wrote a book back in the 1940's called "You Can't Go Home Again". Although much in need of editing, it still is one of those novels that only makes sense if you grew up in a small[ish] town. I thought about those themes a lot recently, when I moved 1000 miles away from where I grew up. You especially think hard when driving those 1000 miles in a car that was your 16th birthday present with nothing but the art you were afraid to trust to the movers and two cats to keep you company.

There are two kinds of people in this world. The first will live and die within ten miles of where they were born. The others will strike out, farther and farther each time, until they are hundreds or thousands of miles away from where they started. The second type of people, like myself, will find out that the concept of "going home" starts to disappear. Everytime you revist the place and try to find that feeling of home it slips farther from you.

Is it true when Thomas Wolfe said "You Can't Go Home Again"? For the second type of person it is. The return road trips through your stomping grounds will look different, because where the change happened gradually for those that stayed, to you it's shocking. Your high school could be a WalMart, your high school lover is married with 2 kids and works at the gas station, or your father is gone and someone else lives in the house you grew up in. I went home over July 4th for a wedding and it will be a long time, if ever, before I return. Whatever it is that I am looking for as "home" there... isn't there.

A few years ago I read a book called "The Risk Pool" by Richard Russo. It's a wonderful read, especially for anyone who has ever left home and kept getting pulled back until there was nothing left to pull you. I highly recommend it.

jjcourtright
10-24-2005, 02:23 PM
Its much like Kerouac said “What is the feeling when you’re driving away from people and they recede on the plain till you see their specks disappearing?
…it’s the to huge world vaulting us, and it’s goodbye.
But we lean forward to the next crazy venture beneath the skies…”

“There’s no place like home…” Dorothy Gale

Man I love the road trip movie and the coming home movie really nothing says more about the American dream then theses. They are what we all dream about either we have already left home and have returned to experience life how it is after we left our safe haven or we are running from the only thing we ever knew to escape/find ourselves. And that friend is beautiful in his or her own weird way. These themes are explored soundly in the films Highway and Garden Sate, in one a pair of friends are trying to escape a destiny of pain in the other a man returns to his legacy of pain and they both grab you and force you to realize that the American Dream is ridden with pain its out inherent condition. To live to suffer to flee to return and that is what life truly is as much as we lie to ourselves there’s no escaping the truth. And that is why I’m a victim of falling for these films, that is why I spend hours pouring over their contents trying to find my meaning in them not knowing that my meaning and yours is mine and yours individually we are not what we watch we only dream of what we may accomplish while we view these things.

Now I write this all with my cigarette smoke burning my eyes causing tears to swell not knowing if the tears are coming from just the smoke or the thought of my own American dream having died. Is it because I can never return home? Or is because I like the fortitude to take that rode trip we all crave to truly find onesself? I do not truly know all I know is that life in its self may or may not pass me by and the rest of us as we throw ourselves into the art and dreams of others and who knows if we or me are willing to go on our own and find our own adventures.

Do we want to Large and return to find love? Or do we simply want to be jack from highway and run from our demons and find love that way? Do we truly know? These are questions most of us are too afraid to answer. We are contempt to live our lives and except what we find and that my friends is a shame and the true sad state of our own affairs.
Jesus, I was supposed to get that out of Garden State? All I got was, "Raise your hand if you got to see titties."

JaimePaulFalcon
10-24-2005, 04:06 PM
Jesus, I was supposed to get that out of Garden State? All I got was, "Raise your hand if you got to see titties."
i just totaly reeveualted my look at that movie excuse me i have to go drop some knowledge on that ho