ADVICE OF A SMAERT PERSON NEEDED!! PART 2

[RyuChi2]

Ok. I took your guys' advice and now were dating. BUT NOW...She thinks that im going to break up with her for her sister...now...I aint gonna lie...Her sister is beautiful...but she aint my type. This girl is...what can I say or do to convince her that shes wrong!?PLEASE HELP!!!! /forums/images/icons/confused.gif

[ILovePapaSmurf]

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what can I say or do to convince her that shes wrong!?

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<font color="purple">Learn how to spell smart correctly?

Take her out to a nice movie or dinner. Give her something nice or give her money to buy something nice. It will work out for the best. /forums/images/icons/laugh.gif</font color>

[jjcourtright]

So the womanly advice is: spend money on her or spend money on her, spend money on her...oh, and spend some money on her. I am so shocked! /forums/images/icons/grin.gif

[ILovePapaSmurf]

<font color="purple">I know, I know, but if cannot spell smart correctly, he obviously would take that advice. /forums/images/icons/wink.gif</font color>

[FanGirl]

Sibling rivalry goes deep and she already seems to have a self esteem issue about it. All you can really do is be with her when your with her. Don't mention the sister, don't invite the sister along, etc. She has no sister.

Try to avoid things at her house. Invite her to your place or go out and do things. Make her feel special.

[Mighty_Wingman]

How's my special gal doin' today ? /forums/images/icons/wink.gif

[jjcourtright]

So the womanly advice is: spend money on her or spend money on her, spend money on her...wait...what's that? That wasn't your advice? Hogwash!

[Matthew]

My advice is for you to say something like this..

"See, I am always nice to your kid sister, and take her driving every night. I am a nice guy.. "

[straight2video]

I don't know...take her to a movie, movies are nice and dark...haha just kidding but you could always take my advice and thank me later.

[woo_wannabe]

I agree with FanGirl, when you're with her, the sisyer doesn't exist. And do something special for her. If she really likes you if won't matter what you do so long as it's with you. Trust me. Last year, for my girlfriend's birthday I asked her what she wanted and she said "You could get me a stick and I would still love it cos it came from you." AWWWWW... Anyway, guess what I did? Yep that's right, I got her the stick. It wasn't a crappy one but. I found a nice size one, sanded it, polished it up and made it nice and smooth. She couldn't stop laughing when I gave it to her. She loved it and still has it in her room almost a year later. Moral of the story, if when you're with her, its all her and nothing will go wrong, unless you screw it up yourself. Let's pray you don't do that. /forums/images/icons/tongue.gif

[DangerSeeker]

Since inevitably the sister will be around at some point or another, when she is just be extra flirty with your girlfriend. Make it clear to the sister (and your gal) that you've made your choice. Chances are she's worried because she doesn't exactly trust her sister, so if you clearly draw the line in the sand to the sister that you're taken, that'll do wonders.

Also, try not to sleep with the sister unless your girlfriend joins you. Afterwards, let your girl pick what she wants to watch on TV.

[brycejmcewen]

You sir, are my hero. Or your GF is my hero, either way, you're wonderful people.

Every GF I have had would have beaten me with the stick they got for their birthday.

[RyuChi2]

Matthew, I have to say...it shouldn't have been...but thats was hella funny.Anyways, to everyone else...HAHAHA!!! SUCCESS!!!(I HOPE I SPELLED THAT RIGHT) I did everything everyone suggested...except spend a shitload of money on her...and talk about taking her sister to the movies...and giving her a stick, but thats about it. I APPRECIATE IT GREATLY! NO MORE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE! AND ILovePapaSmurf, I can spell...Its S-M-A...R...Q....L...4....damn. I knew I shouldn't have slept through spelling class. And to everybody else....I FINALLY READ THE FAQS!!! SEE? LESS ANNOYING...actually...oh nevermind...I hate typing alot...

[Tongue]

Sod it. screw them both together on camera and send it to me. I'll make you a fortune in the European market.

[woo_wannabe]

Thanks man. We love each other heaps and DO NOT stop laughing and having fun whenever we are with each other. That and other things too. /forums/images/icons/wink.gif But her 18th is coming up and I fully don't know what to give her or what to do with her. I want to do something really special. Any ideas guys?

[DangerSeeker]

Cigarettes and porn. When I turned 18 I got cigarettes and porn. I forget what my friends gave me, though...

[Tongue]

Yeah my mother is cool like that too.

[woo_wannabe]

If I got her that, then she would beat me down. Not to mention her mum. /forums/images/icons/crazy.gif But we're thinking of doing something together cos we both turn 18 in the same month. She is the 1st October and I'm the 21st. Yeah I know, I'm 20 days younger than her, but she's still shorter! So any SERIOUS ideas would be helpful guys. Thanks.

[DangerSeeker]

Seious idea? The best idea we could come up with would fall short, since you're the one who knows her. Your present should reflect that. Make it something that shows you know what she specifically likes, even if it isn't particularly romantic.

[woo_wannabe]

Yeah, I guess I sort of asked a hard one hey? Oh well, thanks for the help anyway. And I really appreciate whoever it was saying that we were wonderful people. That really means a lot to me cos it's coming for someone I don't even know so I guess we made a really good impression. Thanks again. You guys rock! /forums/images/icons/grin.gif

[CraigE]

Well it's obvious that you have a solid relationship built on trust and mutual respect.

You shouldn't have to prove to her that you aren't interested in her sister, unless of course you have done something which would make her think otherwise. Tell the girl that she'll have to learn to trust you, or your relationship will never work.

On the other hand, you could sleep with her sister, or even try for three way?

Just my thoughts..